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I, too, am a victim of the Orange County Family Law system. I filed for attorney’s fees in April 2023. Our case was assigned to Commissioner Robert Kholar, who has now dragged this matter out for over two years.

This followed multiple continuances requested by my ex’s attorney to intentionally stall the case. We finally began hearings in December of 2022, only for Commissioner Kholar to suggest we vacate the private judge after sevearl hearings so that he could rule. After several costly and exhausting hearing after the attempts to vacate the private judge, he finally resumed the case — only to side with my ex’s attorney after a year and a 1/2 of hearings, claiming my attorney should have filed within six months of the final judgment from the private judge for fees instead of letting it go and file substitution then trying to collect.

This ordeal has added at least $150,000 in unnecessary legal fees to the $160,000 existing and countless all-day hearings that achieved nothing but further financial and emotional damage. At each hearing, he made everyone remain in court for a full day, only to delay resolution.

As of now, it’s still sitting on submission with no ruling in sight. It has been one of the most painful, traumatic experiences of my life, extending what’s now been a 10-year divorce battle that began in May 2016.

This process has devastated my life and the lives of my three beautiful children. The corruption, inefficiency, and lack of compassion in the Orange County Family Court system is beyond words — and no family deserves to endure this.

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